Couples and Family Therapy in Eugene and Springfield, Oregon

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Relational work isn’t about fixing each other. It’s about understanding what pulls you apart, and what might bring you closer.

I work with couples and families in Eugene and Springfield who are interested in understanding their patterns, not just resolving surface-level conflict.

This page focuses on couples and family therapy—what happens between people. If you’re looking to work on your own internal patterns individually, you may want to explore individual therapy.

I typically work best with relational clients who are also doing (or have done) individual therapy. That’s not a gatekeeping tactic. It’s a way to make sure the work holds.

In couples therapy and family therapy, I focus on the relational system, not just individual behavior. I pay close attention to what’s happening between people. Not just who’s at fault, not just who feels more hurt, but the system they’ve created together, how it operates, how it protects, and how it sometimes fails them both.

If we work together, I’ll likely ask:
What keeps happening here? And why?

I won’t take sides, but I won’t stay neutral.
I’ll be honest, curious, and steady, especially when things get hard to say.

Not every couple or family is a fit. That’s okay.

I offer couples therapy and family therapy in Eugene and Springfield, Oregon, both in-person and online.

The consultation is where we begin.